Meghna its for you

"You might spend hours and days and months wooing a girl and she might all be shy, or scared to reciprocate. But, when she does, having gathered her guts and erasing previous memories.. do not act smug, do not act indifferent, do not be cool, do not be mean. Let her rush into your open arms, else she will be left nursing a sad,sad heart "-- Every Girl in this World.

What more can you think of. This was the quote by one of my very thoughtful friend. And so beautifully put. It just simply touched my heart to the core. It brings back all the pain that a girl suffers. All the tolerance that she goes through. All the efforts that she takes to keep up her relationship.

The world typifies a girl as somebody having a very strong and crude heart when it comes to love. But does it realise what actually takes for her to love somebody. Does it realise that once she makes up her mind to love somebody she has given herself entirely to it. And what does she simply expect in return, her love remains the same as the one who did everything to woo her. When a girl takes her time to decide..its not her indifference or hard-heartedness towards the opposite sex. she wants to ensure that she doesn't repeat the mistakes of her past, she doesn't end up into a fake relationship.

And very smartly put by my friend. If she is in love realise it. Feel the importance of being loved by her. Encourage the tit-bits that she takes up to enrich the love between the two. Flourish her dreams and always keep your minds open to relaxation to her mistakes. Nobody is perfect after all. Even a girl goes through alot. Its more important to stand by her and not refute her.

Leave not your girl alone, ignoring the sadness of her life. Let not distress befall her on grounds of the love between the two. Let not her heart be ever left to crying in the dark within herself. Share her tears and turn them into serene moments of love. That's when you grow up and stand by the love for which you had once given up everything else.